How CollegePlus! Parents Are Getting Involved

by Hannah Miller

In typical situations, college students enroll in their respective universities and navigate the road of higher education on their own. However, CollegePlus! students are not alone in their pursuit of a degree. Oftentimes their parents play an active role in guiding their child’s education. I talked with two CollegePlus! moms, Elizabeth Hartzog and Sarah Swanson, who offered some pointers on how they are staying involved in their children’s "college-at-home" experience.

In many ways, their involvement is practical and simple. Mrs. Hartzog discusses with her daughter, Katie, the coaching sessions and then makes a plan to accomplish goals. Katie is 20 years old. Discussing subjects being studied, scheduling tests, driving to and from the testing center, and ordering supplies keep parents involved with their children’s schoolwork. "I check with my son Matt daily to see how long he has studied and what he has studied," Mrs. Swanson said. She also noted that even the simplest of deeds, such as bringing him a much needed cup of coffee, makes a difference. Matt, who is 17, has been studying with CollegePlus! since August of last year.

 

Life-Long Investments

Both of these mothers invest in their children’s education through discussions and planning. However, it does not take much away from their daily schedule. Mrs. Swanson noted that "as far as academics go, it takes five minutes here or there."

Many benefits are produced from continued involvement. Both moms say it keeps the child on track, motivated, and focused. Mrs. Swanson plans the day each morning. "We set a goal to get such and such done by noon," she said. Being involved is also a "protection" for the children said Mrs. Hartzog. And the students feel encouraged by the role their parents are playing. Mrs. Swanson’s son Matt said that he was learning more from his studies with his mom’s help.

A further benefit is enhanced relationships between parents and their kids. Both moms see strengthened relationships as a necessity for life. Mrs. Swanson agreed that parents need "to have that relationship. In a way, it is a lifeline to your children." With their children at home, they continue to build stronger, healthier bonds. Mrs. Hartzog said of her daughter Katie, "Her presence at home makes a difference in my life and in hers. If she were gone, there would not be as much communication and conversation."

The Way to Go

These mothers find practical avenues for staying involved and reaping the benefits of close involvement in their children’s education. Nevertheless, a college degree is not the goal and they make sure their children understand this. "Like I told Matt," Mrs. Swanson said, "schooling and vocation isn’t the end or life purpose."

Mrs. Hartzog’s desires for her children are similar. She wants them to keep things in perspective and "not make such a big deal out of acquiring a college degree." So what is important? "Bible study, ministry, and serving others," she said. Mrs. Swanson noted that "it’s about character and a relationship with the Lord. School is a tool."

 

Hannah Miller is a staff writer for Acceleration. She has been enrolled as a CollegePlus! communications major from her home in Florida since June, 2006.

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